I love you is a statement which we always expect a respond; I love you too. Love begins when you start to admire someone but based on a psychological study, a crush only lasts for a maximum of 4 months. If it exceeds, you are in love. You can’t always expect the best in your love life but one thing we should take note is, love comes
with both best or worst moment. Love doesn’t come with an on-off switch. Enjoy the best moments and put measures to the worst side of it. A philosopher once gave an advice base on his personal experience; “Jack love is not by sight but is within two hearts. The heart tells what’s best for itself at the right time so follow your heart and never love base on the features you see.” Love is made of too many threads of memory and hope and heartache that weave themselves into the very core of who you are.
The extent to which two people in a relationship can bring up and resolve issues is a critical marker of the soundness of a relationship. Many stood for love, history recalls that Romeo & Juliet took love to the extreme level. There’s no pretending when it comes to true love. I’m a bit dicey when someone says love goes where love is, what about someone who will rather love base material things such as money, beauty, octagon shape. Before you start a relationship you should have what it takes to be in one. When your partner does express love toward you, be accepting. Return the loving look. Don’t deflect his or her compliments. Even though it may feel hard or uncomfortable, try to accept the love directed toward you without saying or doing something that might interrupt your partner’s feelings..
In any serious relationship, if you don’t gather your partner’s opinion before making a decision that impacts you both, you’re just storing up trouble for the future. I wonder how many people don’t get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to be with. You should never allow anyone to choose your soulmate for you, you know what will suit your lifetime but don’t love just because of your bad situation. Your Love fades out when you hurt others feeling or break their heart. You should be able to stand for the truth and trust before you can be couples. Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.
You must have that special person in your life who appreciates your warmth, your inner beauty, your essence. Your ultimate wish is to be with a loving, caring mate. You don’t want to be alone. And you recognize the world as it is, a busy place where everyone is running around satisfying his own needs. You are the ultimate survivor and you are committed to spending the rest of your life with the one you love.
Two words. Three vowels. Four constenants. Seven letters. It can either cut you open to the core and leave you in ungodly pain or it can free your soul and lift a tremendous weight off your shoulders. The phrase is: It’s over. –
It can be difficult to leave a long-term relationship, even when our inner-wisdom tells us it’s time to let go. At this point, we can choose let go and endure the intense pain of leaving behind the familiar to make way for a new chapter in our life. Or we can stay and suffer a low-grade pain that slowly eats away at our heart and soul, like an emotional cancer. Until we wake up, one day and realize, we are buried so deep in the dysfunction of the relationship that we scarcely remember who we were and what we wanted and needed to be.
The End of Love Tunnel: When you found out the one you love is cheating, break your heart, don’t answer your calls or don’t reply to your messages, stops sleeping with you, disrespect you. There you start to taste the worst side of love life. You’ll feel empty when you lose the one you love.
———HENJA QUOTE———-
We have to recognise that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, persistence.
Signed by: – HENRY JACK (Henja)
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